Yesterday I told my friend that I had gone to the beach in the morning and chilled in the trunk of my CR-V watching the waves and the few people passing by. He asked me if I went by myself and I told him I went with Bryan. Then he said one of my least favorite lines..
"I was gonna saayyy".. -______-
..and, obviously, when he said that, it meant something negative. Usually, when I hear lines like that, it's always followed with a silent thought like "you're weird" or "that's weird". Ya know, something close to that.
What's the problem with going somewhere alone? Why does it feel like everywhere I go I have to be with someone? Just because you fly solo to go to the mall, to chill at the beach or to just get away and relax doesn't mean you're a loner and have no life. Sometimes people need time for themselves. People are judged for the stupidest, most tiniest reasons and I feel like, nowadays, people have higher expectations and are critical than ever!
I'm not perfect and, yes, I criticize but, please, don't criticize me just because I want to be alone every now and then.
Sorry but I just had to point that out. Hope you're all well! (:
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I feel you, Christi. There's nothing with going somewhere alone, whether it's to take a walk, enjoy the surroundings, run some errands, or even to go eat. Of course the people who don't realize this are the same people who don't take enough time out of their lives to reflect and think -- which is what alone time is perfect for :)
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